They say that any good professional coach is going to have their own coach. The reasoning why is that iron sharpens iron and it’s good to have that accountability of growth. This is especially true if you’re working directly with helping other people grow.
I learned of this when I was first getting into the John Maxwell Team back in 2011. As I look back now, we were lucky enough to have a coaching mentorship program.
There’s other large names that provide this service as well. For example, co-host Clay Green is a Certified High Performance Coach through Brendon Burchard. BUT – the thing with with that is that you have to have gone through High Performance Academy to be part of that.
To be frank, I hadn’t actually met anyone that specifically was helping other current coaches get better at just coaching.
That’s where today’s guest, Marc Mawhinney, is really starting to make a name for himself as being a coach’s coach.
Having started his newest business, Natural Born Coaches, he has amassed a heck of a following on Facebook with over 6000 people adding themselves to his group in a short couple of years.
Besides having a great niche to work in himself, Marc is also the host of a podcast where he brings on other folks who can help coaches get better at their craft too.
In our conversation today with Marc, Al and I discover how he ended up doing this work in the first place, what he really helps other coaches with, and some nuts and bolts about how he’s built his business including his Facebook group.
If you’re wanting to be a successful coach in a particular field, then Marc is a great guy to know.
Thanks for listening, and enjoy the show!
SPECIFICALLY, YOU’LL FIND OUT MORE ABOUT:
How’d Marc get started in Real Estate? 8:28
How did Marc make the transition from real estate to coaching? 12:50
What does Marc help his clients with? 15:51
What kind of things does his programs specialize in? 18:51
Why does Marc send daily emails to his list and believe it’s ok to do so? 20:46
Where does he get the inspiration for the content he shares in his group and his emails on a daily basis? 23:52
What’s some keys in starting a good Facebook group? 28:52
Did Marc have any influences in how he built his group? 32:27
Why did he personally opt to go with a podcast instead of doing videos on YouTube? 34:03
What are some of the cornerstones that a successful coach uses to build their business? 39:53
Three teachers who have helped Marc get where he’s at. 43:25
Hardest thing that he’s ever had to say no to? 44:13
What’s something that isn’t as bad as he thought it’d be? 44:51
What’s a service which doesn’t exist he’d gladly pay for? 45:28
Testimonials for Marc’s “Your First 5 Clients” Program:
Marc on Growing a Coaching Business through Online Courses:
Vanessa Talbot’s Q&A session with Marc:
Thanks for Listening!
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It might be me, but some of them seem to conflict with each other. For example, if you’re racing the sun, that means that you’re a morning person and you work until sundown. Well, what if night is your best working time? Can night owls make the transition to morning birds so easily?
I know for me, it takes me a bit of time for my mind to fully boot up in the morning. Usually I spend an hour just seeing what’s new on the web, having breakfast, and working out (yay for home gym equipment you actually use!).
This is completely different than how many people approach their days – and frankly when I approached my days like that back in high school, I was always a zombie until 3rd period.
Apparently, there’s nothing wrong with that, according to this session’s guest, Lisa Crilley Mallis.
People do have their own schedules and processes when it comes to being creative and getting things done.
She also acknowledges that many people’s day to day work life doesn’t allow them to actually be efficient in their own zone. While it might be expected of them, it’s by no means healthy or really productive for that matter.
In our conversation, we talk more about her mission, some of the things that she helps people with in her practice, and how you can keep focused in what’s important in your daily routine.
Thanks for listening, and enjoy the show!
SPECIFICALLY, YOU’LL FIND OUT MORE ABOUT:
What was Lisa doing before she started Impactive Strategies? 7:32
Was owning her own business something she always saw herself doing and how did she end up starting it? 11:21
What kind of material did she study as she was starting the foundation of her business? 16:46
What’s the secret to getting more done in a person’s day? 20:15
How can someone battle the busy work in their day? 24:11
What’s Lisa’s definition of true busy work? 30:04
How does she know when to say no about a opportunity? 34:40
What’s a simple way to keep people focused on what’s important? 40:23
What’s going on the rest of this year for Lisa? 43:24
Who are Lisa’s favorite teachers? 45:45
Something she wishes was still a thing? 46:25
What is the smallest decision that has had the greatest impact on her life? 48:08
Something she believed in her 20’s but now knows is completely inaccurate? 49:21
How can someone be a difference maker in their community? 51:16
Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Leave a note in the comment section below!
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If you have any questions feel free to email them over via the email mentioned in the show or by our contact form.
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Teenager entrepreneurs are blowing up around the internet these days. It’s crazy. It’s not uncommon to hear of 14 year olds making thousands, if not millions, of dollars in their businesses.
For me growing up, this was never an option. Even when I was in Amway, you had to wait until you were 18 to officially start. As the internet has evolved over the last few years – you just see more and more kids and teens being and doing more so much earlier. Sometimes I feel blessed that I grew up in the 90’s which I consider the ultimate decade to be a kid, but then I see kids like today’s guest and it makes me think – would I have started my own business online when I was starting high school?
For today’s guest, it was a no brainer. Like me, he got started in an MLM, but soon found out that he wanted to be an online entrepreneur as well. Today he’s a motivational speaker as well as a podcast guest and will soon be an author.
Through his podcast he aims to inspire other teens by hosting inspirational figures including entrepreneurs like Caleb Maddix (check out the show note extras), sports figures, and others to find out more about them.
In our conversation, we talk more about his beginnings, where he got the idea for the show, and what has him excited for the future.
If you know any teens struggling to find direction in their lives – perhaps it might be worth your while to have them check this interview out!
Thanks for listening, and enjoy the show!
SPECIFICALLY, YOU’LL FIND OUT MORE ABOUT:
How has being a homeschooled student been a catapult in Easton’s success? 7:27
How does he balance his active sports life with his schooling and his business? 12:48
How does a homeschool student become part of a school team? 13:46
How did Easton become interested in starting his own business? 15:36
What caused him to pivot into motivational speaking? 17:41
Who have Easton’s mentors been as he’s been developing his podcast? 20:47
Where can someone find a mentor for themselves? 23:24
How can a teen help a friend of theirs find their own identity? 26:54
What are some steps that a person can take to achieve a goal? 29:07
What’s the book about that Easton is writing? 32:24
How did he write his book? 33:37
Anything else he’s excited about this next year? 35:35
Top 3 Favorite books he recommends to others? 36:18
Scientific Fact that he knows is real but still blows him away? 38:21
What is something that isn’t as bad that he initially thought it would be? 40:38
What’s a service that doesn’t exist that Easton would gladly pay for? 41:26
What does it meant to live a life of abundance? 42:04
Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Leave a note in the comment section below!
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Whether you call it living off your passion, living your dreams, or simply working your mission, it’s no secret that if you really want to be successful in life, you’re going to have to do what satisfies you.
Those that find that satisfaction in a traditional job (where they’re working for someone else) are increasingly becoming the minority.
A Forbes article in 2014 showed 52.3% of Americans are unhappy at work. Sure, we’ve been climbing back up since 2010 – but when you look at the entire picture, we’ve been on a slide since 1987.
This said, it’s simple to understand why more and more people are opting to work for themselves. It’s the one way we can control our day to day working lives.
However, there are certain questions that come up time and time again when starting on this path.
In this guide, I’ll be looking at some of the most common concerns folks have when starting out with their first business and everything you need to get over those humps yourself.
Let’s get started.
Chapter 1: Passion is Optional – But it Helps!
There are two people that many people think of when the term passion is discussed. On one side, you have Gary Vaynerchuk, who says that if you want to stick with a business through the thick and thin, then it helps to have found your passion before you get started.
On the other hand, Mike Rowe of Dirty Jobs fame says that many of the folks that he’s talked to over the years have found out that they’re good at doing a certain job. After doing that the job for awhile, the passion follows.
For me, I’ve come to the conclusion that passion is nice to have. BUT – it’s not everything.
Find Your Mission
What is everything is an idea that David Anderson shared in his TEDx talk. He says that we need to have a mission in our life. Figuring out what this mission is for ourselves is truly how we’re going to succeed in whatever we do; we’ll make our career decisions based on that mission.
Now, to to find that mission you’ll have to put some time in and try some things out and see if you like them. You can’t just say “Oh, hey, yeah – I like to do <insert cool thing here>. You’ll really have no idea.
It’s important to go take dumb action, or what I like to call it, perform self-experimentation. You need see what you like to do, and then mold your mission around what you’ve learned from that action.
That’s really what you should be doing in the first 20+ years of your life: testing the waters. I believe that’s why many kids who have guided their own homeschooling properly are set up for success. They get to figure out what they like to do as opposed to formal education telling them.
Chapter 2: How to Start a Business without a Degree?
They say that experience is the best teacher. So I make it a point to pay attention to people who have results that I want.
I’ve been doing this since college because I learned back then that there are definitely folks who teach things that they have no experience at. There were professors who taught business, even though they had never left academia. It was pure speculation or hearsay that’d they use to power their courses.
Likewise, in the rest of the world, there are people who never graduated college who are some of the best business teachers.
Recently I’ve been learning more about Russell Brunson and his Clickfunnels empire. In his new book, Expert Secrets, he wrote about how even he had the imposter syndrome early on. But now, 10 years later, he’s considered by many to be one of the big experts in online business!
Unless you’re going to start working with something that is highly specialized and regulated, then yes, you probably should get training before hand to do it. This would include some doctors, lawyers, dentists, construction, trainers, engineers, etc.
While not all of these require the same amount of education, they all should know what they’re doing before they get started.
Just in Time Learning
As a Creative, it’s important to practice Just-In-Time Learning.
Now, if you’re starting a business on something that doesn’t require previous education to get rolling, then you have the ability to be only one step ahead of the people you’re trying to serve.
In fact, when you’re getting going, that’s probably as far as you want to be. Because if you have much more, you might overload your brain with information you might not be ready for.
The way to do be only one step ahead of the folks you’re trying to serve is called Just in Time Learning. Note: You can also apply this method of learning to anything in life, not just what you’re helping clients with. If you’re looking to build a new skill, then practice it then. If you’re learning how to be more social – that’s a great time as well.
Note: If you’re interested in learning things quicker, then you should check out Jim Kwik.
When I was still studying at Purdue’s Burton Morgan Center, one of the things that came up again and again were business plans. In fact, it became so popular that there were business plan competitions. I’m sure there still are.
Truth be told, unless you’re partnering up with some folks, whether as co-founders, investors, or key clients, then you’re not going to need a traditional business plan.
However, what you’ll need to do is make sure you have focus and clarity in what you’re actually helping people do.
Also, for the times when you need to express what you’re doing in a summary format, you can use the Business Mission Formula.
In this post, I shared a formula that goes like this:
I help X (your “niche” audience): _____________
Do/Understand Y (something you’re good at helping people with): _____________
So that they can Z (a benefit your audience would want): _____________
Which then, for me, I turned into:
I help aspiring and veteran entrepreneurs, artists, and experts
Discover, share, and monetize their life’s work
So that they can live a lifestyle they’re truly proud of.
Not only do you get a simple mission, but you also get an elevator pitch that you can share with others about what you actually do.
Wait, There’s More!
One more thing that I want to share with you guys from Fizzle is this awesome post where they shared 10 Steps to Start a Business. It’s a good follow up piece that I think you need to consider when starting your business.
Fizzle’s 10 Steps to Start a Business
Chapter 4: How to Know When It’s the Right Time to Start
Check out Kate Erickson’s Perspective on why you should start NOW
There is no right time. Period.
Ok, so those of you who know me, might realize that this is something that I struggled with for years. It never seemed like it was the right time until… it wasn’t.
I finally started working on New Inceptions full time when I decided to leave my post at AMS as a day to day content director. Now in my second year of development, I’m almost 100 episodes into the AoL Podcast and have just as many (plus a few more) blog posts.
I feel that I’m finally in the creative groove – that I’m no longer experimenting.
In fact, there’s been some local opportunities that have started to pop up because of my continual focus.
That said, had I moved onto another job right after leaving AMS – or something that took up my creative time (like teaching a ridiculous subject to college kids) – then I wouldn’t be as far as I am.
LYL’s Article on 6 Money Myths when Starting a Business
Actually, you couldn’t be further from the truth on this one. Some of the wealthiest entrepreneurs I know of started with nothing.
Take Dane Maxwell, known for starting The Foundation (TF), for example. The dude practically taught folks how to start businesses for free – it’s just knowing how to do presales and coming up with a really REALLY good idea for a business.
Of course getting the training from TF wasn’t cheap – but the knowledge that I got from there is practical to just about any idea out there.
There’s a post over at Live Your Legend that I thought would be of benefit to you if you’re struggling with this part as well.
In the post, Leah Hynes and Nazrin Murphie talk about 6 Myths that relate to money being a problem when it comes to living your dreams.
Chapter 6: How to Scale the Manpower of Your Bootstrap Business
Check out Pat Flynn’s Book, Will It Fly, If You want a Step By Step Procedure of Starting a Business
There are two beliefs which are very predominant in the psyche of new entrepreneurs. Either they feel they need to hire a staff right away to do what they’re doing or they feel that they have to do everything.
Here’s the thing. While you can, you don’t have to raise big money to get that business off the ground.
If you’re just starting out, you can just start out with a bootstrap business – which might be just yourself.
If this is the route you choose, then you really need to start knowing yourself well.
Who you are and what you’re capable of.
If you can make an income from providing value on your own, then scaling is going to be much easier.
But find out if your thing, whatever it is, can actually support itself. If not, you can adjust easier as one person than you can as a “startup” with a team of people. From there, that’s when you can start thinking about getting help as you start to scale your services.
Start Small
At first when you do get help, start small. Starting with a VA is probably the best choice you have if you do online work.
You might be wondering, how will I know if I need help?
If feel there are two ways to know if you need help.
If the work that you’re doing over and over is something you could teach a high schooler to do in a week or two, then it might be time to find that high schooler.
If the work you’re doing doesn’t lie in your creative arena. Then that might be a sign as well.
If you answered yes to either one of these, then it might be time to think about getting some assistance.
If for some reason you don’t think that your budget would warrant bringing someone on, even as a VA, that’s ok.
Don’t forget, as someone who is running a lean business, bartering is an option. While it can be somewhat of a headache, it’s totally possible.
Or, perhaps there’s a college near you who has some students who might like to get internship experience.
Don’t overlook these other opportunities.
How to Not Get Superman Syndrome
For years, Pat Flynn would hire random VA’s to help him do some work here and there. But it was pretty sporadic.
After repeatedly being told by his friends that he needed to have a more permanent staff, though, he finally took the plunge and started Team Flynn.
Chapter 7: You Don’t Have to be the Next Gary Vaynerchuk – #Anti-Hustle
Back in 2016, Gary really started making a big name for himself. His videos were everywhere. In fact, they were so well known that to many in the online entrepreneurial space, that mostly everyone thought that if they weren’t living and breathing their business all the time, then they’re not going anywhere.
Eventually, even the Fizzle Squad had to come and answer this issue:
Here’s the gist, though. If you’re not enjoying the rewards of your work, then you better LOVE the work you’re doing. Even so, there’s a thing called burnout. That’s a place you really don’t want to go – believe me.
In Gary’s case, I really believe he gets satisfaction of his 24/5 grind. It’s 24/5 because he doesn’t work on the weekends. In fact, somewhere I heard him say the reason his accounts go dark over the weekend is because that’s when he spends that time with his family.
Action Steps
So, there you have it. 7 different concerns that keep people from pulling the trigger all answered.
I hope that does a good job of answering them for you. If not, I’d love for you to comment below or shoot me an email.
If you don’t have any further questions, let me know which one(s) you had to deal with before you finally decided to get started.
P.S. If you want more info about starting your own business and want to get to it right away without wasting time, check out my FREE eBook, the 6 Cornerstones of a Successful Business.
Cheers!
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Stage fright, fear of public speaking, or performance anxiety are things that many people, especially creatives, have to deal with to achieve some sort of success in their lives.
If you want your message to be heard, then you’re just going to have to deal with it – so many of the experts say.
How exactly do you deal with it?
Personally, I’ve always struggled with it as far back as I can remember. It prevented me from joining the debate team in high school and it also prevented me from trying to achieve more in band. Later, when I was in college, I couldn’t help but have a dear in headlights look in my communications classes… and then finally, when I hit grad school, it was really a fight or flight situation. Either I get over it and teach 6 classes of 30+ students, or don’t go to grad school. I had no interest to do research.
Those classes were rough, but I made it through.
For today’s guest, Marti MacEwan, she had a similar struggle. It suddenly hit her when she attempted to sing – but couldn’t.
From that point on, she made it a point to figure out why she couldn’t. And she came to find out that it stemmed all the way back to her childhood.
As she found out where her fear actually came from, she learned to cope with it. What she found out she later shared in her book: The Stage Fright Cure.
In today’s chat, Veronica and I learn from Marti more about this path of hers, where the book came from, and some really good tips for you if you’re struggling with stage fright.
Thanks for listening, and enjoy the show!
SPECIFICALLY, YOU’LL FIND OUT MORE ABOUT:
What was Marti’s background with stage fright before she could help other people tackle theirs? 9:13
Why did she choose theatre as a major in college even though she would get stage fright? 11:00
How did Marti get into therapy while her background was in theatre? 13:01
What inspired Marti to write her book, the Stage Fright Cure? 15:52
What’s the difference between therapy, training, and coaching? 28:33
What’s her take on pivoting in one’s career successfully? 39:27
What are some of the things that someone can start doing to work on their own stage fright issues? 43:45
Top three favorite books? 52:54
What is a scientific fact that she knows but yet still blows her away? 56:32
What’s something that isn’t as hard as she thought it was going to be? 1:01:22
What’s a basic life skill that Marti is amazed people lack? 1:02:48
What does it mean to live a life of abundance? 1:04:30
Marti discusses how to untie emotional knots with psychotherapy and energy work:
Prof. Dave Guin discusses why We Fear Public Speaking:
Richard Greene on the 7 Secrets of the Greatest Speakers in History:
Thanks for Listening!
Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Leave a note in the comment section below!
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Depression can be a heck of a struggle – and it can hit us at any time. For creatives, depression can be triggered by the simple feeling of being alone because no one understands what it is you’re trying to do. For a lot of people, though, it can set in from life not going the way we’d expect it to.
Personally, I went through depression 3 times in my first two years of college. I was used to being great in my academic studies and all of a sudden, I wasn’t. Eventually I found out that the cause of my depression was due to my major, and I switched soon thereafter.
For our guest, Anthony Hayes, he realized back in 2004 that he was chronically depressed himself. He set out on a mission to figure out how to not only get out of it, but then to not fall back into it ever again. Besides coming up with his M5 strategy, he also has written a book on the matter, and continues to help others with the problem.
Besides this mission, he’s the host of Me, Myself, and I Radio, and co-founder of the Facebook Community – Podcast Discovery Center.
Join us as we find out more about this journey of his and the purpose of his work that he does today.
Thanks for listening, and enjoy the show!
SPECIFICALLY, YOU’LL FIND OUT MORE ABOUT:
How did Anthony realize that he was severely depressed? 9:55
How does he keep from entering into his troughs in life? 19:08
What was the purpose behind Anthony writing his book? 23:29
What’s Anthony’s podcast about and who should be listening? 27:13
What prompted Anthony to join Scott Doucet in creating the PDC? 33:25
What’s Anthony’s M5 Strategy and what effect they’ve had on his life? 39:27
What’s the big ambitions for Anthony in 2017? 47:10
3 Top Favorite Books? 50:00
One thing he wishes was still a thing? 50:42
One gift that he likes giving others? 53:41
What’s one thing that all high school students must know? 54:25
How can someone be a difference maker in their community? 54:46
Anthony on the Importance of Goals as a Podcaster:
Anthony on the topic of including descriptions in your podcasts:
Dr. Kasim Al-Mashat on How Meditation Redefines pain, happiness, and satisfaction:
Light Watkins on Debunking the 5 Most Common Meditation Myths:
Thanks for Listening!
Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Leave a note in the comment section below!
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In general, entrepreneurs can be a picky bunch when it comes to using our 24 hours. Most of us have routines that we pride ourselves in having.
However, sometimes those routines get in the way of more efficient practices and routines that we don’t even know exist.
That’s why it’s important to keep learning. As solopreneurs, we need to keep learning about skills, mindsets, and interacting with others. It’s when we learn those better routines where we find ourselves being a superhero version of ourselves.
In this post, I’m going to share two frameworks that I recently heard on a podcast with Jim Kwik, founder of SuperHeroYou. Ironically, I’ve employed these frameworks in my own learning, but I wasn’t consciously aware of it! I guess it was just one of those situations where I was a unconsciously competent.
Both of these processes have allowed me to learn skills and new ideas quickly and retain them – I know it will be useful for you as well if you haven’t heard of them!
It Helps to be a FAST Learner
The first acronym which was shared in the interview was FAST. Since I’ve been a teacher in the past, I developed these habits for myself. But as mentioned, it’s cool to have them made into a framework to share with others.
The F in FAST stands for Forget
Now, you might be thinking, “isn’t forgetting the last thing we want to do in learning?”.
Well, sorta.
Here’s the thing. The forgetting that needs to take place is actually the perspective that we have on a given topic. We don’t want to approach something from a know-it-all perspective. Whatever we feel that we know of a given subject is going to get in the way.
This is precisely why most kids learn faster than adults. Most adults approach new topics from a point where they’re trying to relate it to information they already know about a given situation. They try to make sense of it and store each new piece they learn with something they already know.
Another thing we want to forget is limiting beliefs. Just because something might not have worked for you in the past doesn’t mean it can’t work for you in the future. Maybe you feel that you’re not worthy to receive success? Well forget that too. That’s not true. Especially if it’s in something that isn’t related to your physical abilities.
The A in FAST stands for Active
The next part to remember is that you need to be active with anything you’re learning. That’s why the courses that people like to take are the ones with workbooks. We might have hated those as we were growing up in classes, but there was some good intention there.
As you might know, I’m not a big fan of our current education system – the Prussian Education System. (I mentioned it in session 5 of the AoL podcast.) It simply isn’t preparing today’s students for where the world is at.
In a nutshell, this system teaches us how to take orders. We implemented it in the United States when the economy required more workers than leaders. I believe that today’s economy needs more leaders – not followers. More people taking initiative than people waiting to be told what to do. Be PROACTIVE, not REACTIVE.
The S in FAST stands for State
The next thing about learning quickly is that you have to be in the right state of mind and body. Not only do you have to be ready and open to learn, you also have to be in the right position.
The state your mind has to be in is one of curiosity. If you’re apprehensive about a subject, you’re really not going to understand it in the same way. Remember, approach the subject as a kid would – with wonder.
The state your body needs to be is one of attention. For example, if you were really into a movie, more than likely you’re going to be in a different position than if you were casually watching TV.
The T in FAST stands for Teaching
I listened to this podcast twice because I knew I wanted to share it with you guys. Because of that, I’m learning about it at a deeper level than I would have if I was just casually listening to it for myself.
If you really want to learn something thoroughly, learn it as if you’re going to teach it to someone else – like a best friend. Prepare for questions they might have by making notes to yourself and relating that new information to topics they might already be familiar with.
Remembering Through the MOM Framework
So, learning is one thing. But remembering is another.
Everyone can learn facts or new things (including names!) but unless you use the following items, you’re going to forget what you’ve learned.
The First M in MOM is for Motivation
You need a reason to remember what you’re learning. As they said in the chat, if you were promised $10,000 to remember someone’s name, you’re going to be able to remember their name even if you’re bad at remembering in names.
Since that’s pretty unrealistic in most cases, you’ll need to figure out what your motivation is to remember whatever you’re learning.
But just a tip – Dale Carnegie wrote that people love hearing their name. So when you are learning names, perhaps you should remember them. Especially if you’re a business owner. You don’t know if knowing someone will eventually land you a $10,000 deal – OR more!
The O in MOM is for Observation
One of the things that Brendon Burchard is really big in advising others to do is be present. Soak it all in, not only for others, but for yourself.
This works both ways because, for one, if you’re paying attention to your surroundings when you learn something or meet someone important, then you’re going to have more connection to that moment.
Also, if a person is present for others, they’ll remembered by the person they were conversing with. Why? Simply because most people are noticeably not paying attention to what’s being said – they’re either trying to think about how they’re respond or they’re focused on something else completely.
The Second M in MOM is for Mechanics
It’s ok to come up with your own acronyms – whatever works for you. The trick is to find a process or trick that works for different situations and practice it. Over and over. For instance, you won’t get better at memorizing names until you start practicing it.
Action Steps
I want you guys to apply these frameworks in your day to day lives. So the first thing I want you to do is listen to a conversation with Jim. I listened to him through Jordan Harbinger, but maybe you’d prefer to hear him talk with Lewis Howes.
If you’ve already started applying these frameworks in your life, I’d love to hear about your experiences below. What is something that you’ve applied one of these frameworks to? How’d it work out?
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