When people think of the labels consultant, coach, or teacher, they often think of the same type of person. Someone that instructs and helps others. However, each one of these labels are actually different than one another. The consultant uses their skill set to help their client. The coach helps bring the client to a solution by asking the right questions. While the teacher uses both skills to help their students learn and apply what’s being taught in the classroom.
As far back as I can remember, I’ve always found myself being all three in one way or another. I’ve been the tech person when it comes to helping friends and family with their computers. I’ve always been the listening ear when people are trying to fix a problem in their life – helping them with problems they might not see right in front of them. And I have that uncanny ability to be able to mix the two and teach complex topics. Hence why I taught algebra for a couple of years.
I was quite amazed when I found out that each is it’s own separate skill.
For today’s guest, coaching has been something that he’s been utilizing for sometime as well. In fact, you’ll find out that when he started coaching people professionally, he was simply relaying information that he essentially had just learned in his classes in college. However, he found that he had a passion for it and he’s made it his full time career.
In this session, we’ll learn how he got into coaching in the first place. How it’s helped him along in his career. What he learned from the John Maxwell Team that sets him apart from other coaches, and how he specifically helps business go from Good to Great.
If you’ve wanted to find out how you might be able to become a professional business coach, then this might give you a couple of ideas in how you can get started down that career path. If you’re in need of a coach, then Stephan might be a great solution for you!
SPECIFICALLY, YOU’LL FIND OUT MORE ABOUT:
Why Stephan’s formal education track wasn’t so different than most. (9:03)
How he got introduced to entrepreneurship (12:53)
When he felt that it was time to go separate ways with his first business partner from college (17:29)
How he was able to get his first clients while he was still a student (22:41)
How the John Maxwell Team has helped his business (28:27)
How John Warrillow has inspired the new version of his business (31:06)
Stephan’s 2 additional Value Drivers (beyond John Warrillow’s first 8) (33:50)
Why it’s important to intentionally develop a company’s culture (35:04)
Upcoming movies we’re excited about (40:23)
Why he likes working with groups as well as individuals (42:29)
How he currently meets his potential clients (46:25)
How his current career aligns with his “Why” (52:05)
Why Apple shows how its important to have a definitive “Why”. (58:24)
What’s the difference between the popularity of the Beatles and Boston? (1:02:05)
Long version via the Youth Banking Conference (Part 1):
Long version via the Youth Banking Conference (Part 2):
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One thing that I notice that people ask their mentors is this simple question: “should I have a plan B in case my business idea doesn’t pan out?”.
And really, it depends on who you ask and what the meaning behind your question is.
As I was doing the research for this piece, the answers I found were all over the board. Some said, “Yes, it’s irresponsible not to have a Plan B.”. While others suggest that you need to burn your bridges. Their thinking is that, like Aeneas of Roman mythology, that there is no going back. Having a plan B means that you have a back door – an escape plan of doing great things.
While I’m a huge believer in being prepared and planning in general (I mean, I’ve been trained to think like an engineer, right?), I think the bridge burners have some points as well.
So which is it?
When President Kennedy wanted to take us to the moon, as impossible as the goal was, we were able to craft a plan to get it done. With a ton of engineering, we were able to accomplish it – even with the primitive computers they had at the time.
However, because they were engineers, they probably had a plan B, C, AND D.
With this in mind, you can see that even the most responsible amongst us are shooting for the stars. However, it might take multiple tries to actually get you there.
Fire and Adjust
This past weekend, I was listening to a podcast in where the host, Michael O’Neal, was talking about branding. One of the ideas that he suggested for starting a new company is to use a name that your audience would know, but not necessarily other people. In this instance, he was talking about a friend of his (or client) who was wanting to start a military based podcast for success. The phase “Fire and Adjust” seemed to fit the bill of veteran entrepreneurs.
When I heard that phrase, it made me think of this Plan B issue again.
In the military, they have an objective. They have overarching goals. However, the tactics that are used to achieve the big picture goal might change depending on the circumstances.
For example, for the Angles of Lattitude Podcast, I originally wanted to have 3 regular hosts that would be discussing topics in entrepreneurship and having guests on. Those three were Brian, Jonathan, and myself.
However, life happened to both of them about the same time. Jon got sucked up by his senior year at college. Brian had a new kid which he now spends part of his days caring for.
So I had to do something quick.
What did I do? Instead of having the same co-hosts every week, I’d have guest co-hosts who were actually past guests themselves. That way, if someone was interested to know more about a particular co-host, they could go back into the archive and find out more about them.
So far, it seems to be working. Which means, I’m still going to have a co-host based podcast, but now it’s almost as if I have multiple guests at the same time – which is something that I don’t hear many podcasts doing. You never know what you’re going to get!
Great story, JC – but how does that apply to me?
Well, in your particular instance, I’m not sure. But there are 4 takeaways that you can get out of it and apply to your own situation.
Commit
This is where the bridge and boat burners got it right. Say what you’re going to do and do what you said you were going to do. Sure, you might not be literally going to the moon on your own, but if you want to build a business that provides for you and your family that utilizes a passion, then you’re going to have to do some work. If you’re still working a day job, you might not have full-time commitment. However, I’m not saying to quit your job. (In fact, sometimes, quitting your job might have a negative effect on a new business.) When you do have the time to build your dream (which you’ll more than likely have to prioritize to get the time in), you need to have a steady focus and intensity that tells your subconscious that “this is important to me”.
Take Small Steps
One of the things that I’ve noticed many people that I’ve been working with lately start their dream job is that they’re overloading themselves with all the things that need to be done to have a fully functioning online business. “I need a logo. I need Mailchimp, I need to learn how to put videos on YouTube. I need to learn how to use Snapchat… and… and…” This is one reason why I highly recommend Fizzle to everyone who starts their first online business. Before Fizzle, I always thought it’d be cool if there was a ONE place where people could go to to get the education to build an online business for a relatively small monthly fee. That’s what Fizzle is. A community built by entrepreneurs for new entrepreneurs to get their business going. Think of it as inexpensive online mentorship. Anyway, without being in Fizzle, I’d say that you need to build your own Roadmap starting with the end in mind. Ask yourself, what does success look like? Not just when you have a successful business that’s actually in the black, but on the way to that point. Are there examples of businesses that you can model up to the “end point”? This applies to all of your business, not just the tactics. When you start seeing results, and you feel confident that going at it 100% of the time will be as rewarding as the day job that you’re in (monetarily and emotionally), then go for it! Plan and execute a transition. Choose a date for your “Freedom Day” – the day that you’re able to pursue your dream full time. Between then and now, research, learn, and build the foundation of your future business. DON’T try to do it all in one month! Hell, it’s taken me a year to get up to this point!!
Network and Leverage Relationships (Like Mad!)
How do I expand my influence?
Read the following in Gary V.’s voice. (He didn’t actually say this… I just imagine he would!)
Meet. New. People. Why? Because each person you’ve ever met has had an impact in how you think today. Cause and Effect. Where there’s an action, there’s a reaction. Whether they were a positive influence, or a negative influence, you’ve thought about them for a least a second. If they were a positive influence, you might have thought “How can I use what they said in my life?” If they were negative, you might have thought “Oh, I don’t want to be like them!” or some other type of reaction. Lack of meeting new people means not only lack of you getting the right influences in your life, but it also means lack of opportunity. One thing that’s really been making me scratch my head recently is people who must keep their Facebook account limited to real lifefriends. It’s like they’re trying to play golf and going for the lowest score to… I don’t know what the point is. Minimalism perhaps? Trying to keep “positivity” in their feed? Not quite sure. Here’s the problem with this. They’re not expanding their influence in either direction. They’re not allowing the doors to be open to new opportunities (and in Facebook’s case, new Groups) and they’re not influencing new people. Think about this. The friends that they have on their account now, were at one time strangers. Even more, those friends probably also have a particular view of this person who’s trying to radically change their life. Chances are pretty low that those friends are going to be going along on the same journey. So, person, who is building influence online… How are you going to build influence online if you don’t and CAN’T even utilize one of the easiest ways to do that? Pages? Pages can’t network. They can’t get into Groups. They can’t actually build influence. They can keep it going, sure. But when you’re just starting, you need to be shooting for that 5000 max friend score. By then, you might have enough traction for your “Fan Page” to actually have a following. But using a Fan Page in 2016 to build a following is going to require investing money for advertisements. If you’re against using Facebook to build your network, there’s other tools that can do that for you. Instagram, Twitter, and what I highly recommend you figure out: Snapchat. You keep asking questions, we’ll keep answering them. Gary V. out!
Don’t fall into the false belief that you have to do just one thing. There used to be a time when you could take advantage of Google and call your website something that people would search. This is where websites like Smart Passive Income originally came from. From there you’d talk about whatever that topic was. That was (and still is) called building a niche site.
However, Google’s changed since then. You can name your business whatever you want. It’s the actions and your engagement that are going to build it. If Google and the rest of the world is changing all the time, why shouldn’t you? Not too long ago I talked about the difference between niche marketing and niche product development. This also applies to your career. Just like you can market your business to multiple audiences, you can also do the same for yourself and the dreams and careers you choose. Maybe go-getter millennials don’t pay attention to you. That doesn’t mean that you can’t focus on other audiences and serve them!
Action Steps
So until next time, let’s think about a couple of things here. Do you need a Plan B? Not if you’re committed to your goal. At this point, as a beginner, just remember that you want to plan a transition to your next career. If you’ve been laid off and thinking that building an online business is quick money, it’s not. Go get a job that complements what you’re wanting to do in the future with this online business. Now build a roadmap. Having trouble doing that? Not sure what one is? Subscribe to Fizzle and use theirs. Find some people that are on the path to that destination. Add them on Facebook if possible, get to know them a bit. From there, start working on one thing at a time. Rome wasn’t built in a day! If you’re not a beginner, how’s your plan going? Did you have to change things up a bit to get to where you are? Would love to hear what caused your plan to change. Also, I’d love to get your feedback my thoughts above!
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The current education system is broken. It’s hard to deny it. With college professors suggesting that students aren’t ready for college, and employers saying that graduates aren’t ready for the real world, there’s really too much evidence that something has to be done.
For me personally, I did what I was supposed to do. Go to school. Get good grades. Graduate.
What didn’t happen for me was the “Get a Good Job” part.
I would say that it’s partly my fault. By the time I was finally looking for a job, I wasn’t really interested in being another cog in the machine. In fact, I knew that I wanted to work at a startup.
However, most startups that I spoke with seemed like they were fish out of water. They approached entrepreneurship like a job. They didn’t have much of a reason why that they were doing it. They just knew that they were good at what they did. Maybe it was because it’s what they did before the recession of 2008. Maybe it’s because they thought they could make more money on their own.
Whatever the reason was, it didn’t seem to be working.
I think a big part of that was that the school system that most of us have grown up with program us to be followers. However, we need new leaders more so than ever. Be it in government or in the private sector. One way to get there currently is to homeschool students. Another way is to be mentored by people that are already leading.
Today’s guest, Daniel Postma has done both. Which means he’s well on his way to be one of tomorrow’s leaders.
In this session, we’ll learn all about homeschooling and find out how he was able to acquire the mentorship he’s had in his life. We’ll see what his time as an of apprentice of Dane Maxwell did for him. And we’ll also discuss how he got into the business of medical massage therapy.
If you’re interested to know more about homeschooling, experiential learning, or simply need some guidance in what you should do after you graduate, I think you’ll get a lot out of this conversation.
SPECIFICALLY, YOU’LL FIND OUT MORE ABOUT:
How being homeschooled has been a big help in who he is today. (9:07)
What homeschooling looks like from the inside. (10:51)
Why his parents opted for homeschooling him. (14:47)
How he believes homeschooling prepares students. (16:37)
Why Daniel chose not to go to college. (22:57)
What’s his thoughts on different kinds of education (25:17)
What kind of mentorship he’s had in his life (30:01)
His experience as Dane Maxwell’s apprentice for a month (34:11)
When Daniel knew he wanted to start his first business (39:59)
Why Daniel enrolled in The Foundation even though at that point it was icing on the cake (41:54)
How he’d reach out to others to get out of their comfort zone (43:56)
How he got into Medical Massage Therapy (46:48)
How his family has been able to help him with business (44:55)
Why Daniel’s superpower is being able to utilize everyone’s strengths in his life (52:35)
What he’d tell the younger versions of himself. (58:08)
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SHOW NOTE EXTRAS:
What to do After College (NSFW) – Gary V.:
What Daniel Got out of Being Around Dane Maxwell in 3 Minutes:
Daniel and Terril Interview Clay Green:
Daniel Singing in Snow… Winter in April:
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Whether you call it analysis paralysis or overthinking it, why is it that we spend so much time trying to do what we know that we should be doing? Many of us go to workshops, classes, and even big events to get over this issue.
Even when I was in college, I started realizing that I’d think about how I’d want to do something before I actually tried. In retrospect, it probably cost me some good opportunities here and there.
Here are some of the reasons that people might over think something:
Worried about what other people might think.
Don’t want to start something else that they believe they might fail.
Not sure what the next step is.
Don’t want to waste time that could be used more productively.
Know what many next steps might be.
Do these sound similar to thoughts you’ve had? I know that for me, I’ve struggled with all of them at different points and continue to at times.
Needless to say overthinking things can happen at any level. Let’s look at how we can hack ourselves out of these thoughts that keep us in our comfort zone.
Look Beyond Yourself.
This is one that most of us struggle with as teenagers and early 20 year olds. We wonder if we’re good enough to go on the date with the cool guy or the pretty girl. We wonder if we’re good enough to get on the team. We believe that if we aren’t perfect at school or whatever that we take seriously, that other people won’t take us seriously in the future – meaning that we won’t get into that great school or land that awesome first opportunity.
Personally, for me, I lived in this cage for a good part of my life. I think I started caring when I was constantly bullied in school. And I have to say that really made me worry what others thought of me until 2011.
Then I was given a task to do: make 100 cold calls a week.
That’s what it took to break me out of my mold.
When I was doing those calls, I stopped worrying about what others were going to think of me. What I started to think about was what I was going to be able to do for them.
Here’s the key. When you don’t want to care about what others think of you, you need to realize that you taking action can help others. Sure, it can be people you don’t know with products you believe in (that’s key). But it can also be your friends and family.
By setting the example to do something new, you’re being an example of what’s possible.
However, you might have a deeper issue than that. Sure, you want to be a speaker on a stage sometime, and you realize how many people that would help. But you don’t see yourself as a speaker. In fact, you might have a speech impediment that’s keeping you from getting your message out.
However, it’s still possible for you to become that speaker.
How?
Well, for one, there are some speakers and comedians that have overcome some major hurdles in their lives to do the role that they do. Some of my favorite personalities are those who don’t see their disability as a disability – they see it as a way that sets them apart from the crowd.
One example of a comedian who does this is Josh Blue who has cerebral palsy. (If you want more, he has a special on Netflix.)
Another comedian that I love is Zach Anner – check out his YouTube channel here.
Yet another example is a Christian motivational speaker that you possibly might have heard about is Nick Vujicic who doesn’t have any limbs.
How did these guys get over their hurdles?
First off, they realized that doing what they felt they were being called to do was more important than what others might think.
They also realized, as we talked about before, that doing this new activity would make a difference in people’s lives.
But I think the main thing is that they were able to ask themselves this question: “What’s the worst thing that can happen from this?” and realize that while they might get the occasional heckler, not many bad things can actually happen from doing what they love to do.
Another way that you might be able to get over what others think of you is to simply focus on doing things that you know you have control overthat are related to the task that you’re wanting to do.
When I was trying to get over my fear of doing cold calls, I started doing something I knew I could do. Call people that I already knew. That got me used to talking with people.
From there, I would call warm leads that I didn’t know. People that responded to an email that had already been sent.
During that time, I realized that not all those people had actually seen the email. So after a few of those, I realized that essentially I was doing cold calls anyway.
Well from there, I just started cold calling using a line similar to “Hi, this is JC in response to the email that <insert name> showed an interest in. Are they available?” This usually got me past the gatekeeper. From there, if they didn’t know what I was talking about, I just simply said “Oh yeah. Well, basically it was talking about this <insert topic>. Do you know how knowing how to do that would impact your business?
If you’re looking to become a speaker, maybe you can become a member of a nearby Toastmasters group?
Get Help From Others
Perhaps your problem isn’t so much the fear of doing something, but you currently don’t have the knowledge to get the task accomplished on your own. You don’t know what to do next. Or maybe you just don’t have the time to get proficient at yet another skill. This is when you ask for some help.
The first thing you can do is simply see what other people in your situation have done. When it comes to New Inceptions, you guys know I usually seek help from Fizzle. If there’s no answer there, I’ll go on over to SPI. If Pat doesn’t have an answer, I’ll check elsewhere.
Chances are that whatever you’re wanting to do, someone has probably already done it and they’ve made their success available on the internet.
That said, John Maxwell regularly talks about knowing your strengths and bringing in people for your weaknesses. Sometimes you have to do that. You have to delegate for others to make the decision.
You already do this in your life. Like me, you probably already have a mechanic for your car. Why is that? Because you don’t know how to fix your car.
Do you have an IT guy to fix your computer? Maybe you do. Maybe you don’t. Personally, I’m my own IT guy for the most part.
While I don’t have to pay anyone to do this, there’s a ton of down time when I have to put that hat on. When it comes to the website, while I might be able to figure out how to make it more robust, there’s a big chance that when we do add additional features that I’ll need to hire someone else to work on it.
Accomplish 3 – 5 Things Daily
In the last segment, we discussed getting help to do things you don’t know anything about. However, that’s only going to get you so far.
Perhaps you know everything you should be doing, but because you’re busy doing other work, you find yourself not getting to the core work you should be doing.
The fix here is to set priorities by identifying what your objectives are. Ask yourself these kinds of questions:
What does your ultimate outcome look like?
What does success look like along this path?
How will you know if you’ve reached a goal?
Now figure out what the process is to accomplish these.
John Maxwell says it’s helpful to have a Rule of 5.
Simply said, if you find yourself trying to do everything, then nothing you do is going to be done well.
To solve this problem (which Chris Ducker calls Superman Syndrome) there’s going to be a time when you have to ask someone to do some of the work you might enjoy doing.
For example, I know I enjoy getting out and doing yard work. I think it comes from all the years that my mom and I did it. However, I realize that as New Inceptions becomes more popular, that I’m not going to be able to do all the work that I need to around the house. I know that while I do enjoy doing it, I’m going to have to delegate that work to a professional.
Similarly, I’m going to do the same with the editing of my podcast. While I love working on each talk, eventually I’m going to have to hire it out so I can get my main 3 to 5 things done.
Daily Practice
As the above segment says, you have to do things daily to reach your goal. It’s not so much that that you have to be perfect at your work (we never are), but you should focus on being “Highly Ok”.
Pick which activity you’re going to do until it gets done. Don’t look back after choosing that activity. Do it until you have a stopping point.
And above all else. Set a hard time limit to get your 3 to 5 tasks done. Give yourself “working hours”.
Unless you’re Gary V., don’t be busy for busy’s sake. Don’t worry about hustling… unless you love the chase. In fact, you might want to consider having an anti-hustle lifestyle.
For even more on Anti-Hustling, check out this episode of the Fizzle Show:
Action Steps
The next time that you find yourself overthinking about a specific subject. Remember that there is a resource (here) that might help you from stopping. Try out the recommendations that I’ve suggested. However, if it doesn’t help – I want you to come back and let me know where it’s failing. I’ll personally help you think of a strategy and then add to this resource about what we did!
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Have you ever struggled to get things done? To finish what you have started before moving on to something else?
Maybe, if you’re like me, you’ve found yourself motivated to do something at one point, do it a few times, and possibly even come to a point where it’s a habit. However, you eventually you lose your ability to muster up the strength to do it again.
You’re definitely not alone. Time and again, I’ve seen this issue in several groups I’ve belonged to in the past. The number one problem that I see people struggle with is consistency. Or really, just the lack of focus. Things get jumbled up in their priorities and they’re really never able to finish what they’ve begun.
Becoming More Disciplined:
The term disciplined has such a negative connotation to it. When I think of the word, I think of someone getting scolded by a coach or parent. Or perhaps a dog getting yelled at for doing their business in the house.
However, the term has two meanings. What I just gave examples for is one definition. The other definition is a branch of knowledge, typically one studied in higher education.
In effect, when someone becomes more disciplined, they’re essentially becoming more masterful at something.
Also, I should mention that a 2014 study showed that “engaging in personally interesting activities not only improves performance, but also creates an energized experience that allows people to persist when persisting would otherwise cause them to burn out.”
So instead of thinking of being more disciplined as a bad thing, let’s look at it from a skill building perspective. The more disciplined you are, the better you are at a particular task or type of work that you enjoy doing.
Now that we have that definition, let’s look at the 4 ways of gaining mastery at something.
Method #1 – Build Accountability:
There’s a few ways that we can build accountability. I’m sure you’ve probably heard of accountability buddies. These are people who are on the same or similar path to you. You’re both working for the same goal.
In my personal development circles, a group of this kind of person that meets regularly is a Mastermind.
This past year, I’ve been hosting a mastermind that is based on business building. Not only does this group provide a place for people to talk about what they’ve done in the past week, but it also gives them a place to discuss any problems they’re having and help with any decisions they’re having problems with.
Another way of building accountability outside of people that have similar goals in a mastermind is just learn how to celebrate small wins. This was always something I struggled with – especially in college. What I’ve come to realize since then, though, is that the more you celebrate your small wins, the more incentive you’ll have to stay on track in achieving bigger and better things!
If you’re looking for a way of building accountability that isn’t done with other people is to use a journal. In the past, I’ve talked about using The Five Minute Journal. There are similar ones out there. But this is the one that I’d recommend. After going through my first physical one, I’m now waiting on an Android version! 🙂 However if you have an iOS device, you can get that version already.
Method #2 – Remove Distractions:
This one is probably one of the hardest ones to deal with in today’s world. We are programmed by the world to want to interact with everything that is shiney, vibrates, makes a notification sound, or is annoying.
How much work could you get done if you could eliminate everything from your life that did those things?
So if you’re really wanting to focus on something, turn off or lower the volume on the TV, listen to music that’s lyrics don’t get you too hyped, and keep away from social media when you’re actually doing work. (If you have trouble with that last one, there’s actually some plugins for your browser that will help you with that.)
If you’re in a position where you’re constantly getting bombarded with emails, here’s a thought: don’t pay attention to them until you’re ready. And when you are ready, check it once and then turn it off for the evening. Personally, I do a couple of things in the morning that I have to do before I ever check my email.
As someone that’s trying to do your own thing, you need to spend unbroken time on your projects. Don’t let email become your new boss.
Method #3 – Focus On One Thing
A book that I haven’t had the pleasure of reading yet is called The One Thing, Many of the podcasters and bloggers that I follow love this book. So I have a good understanding of what it’s about. One of the quotes that I’ve heard a couple of times from it is this:
The path of mastering something is the combination of not only doing the best you can do at it, but also doing it the best it can be done. – Gary Keller
The gist here is simple. Don’t try to multitask. No one is really good at it. Get into a zone and focus on using a superpower of yours.
However, just having certain things due each day is only part of the equation. You might be running a little late in a given day. Does that give you permission to stop early?
Nope! It means that you’re staying and getting stuff done until you get it done OR if you have kids that you make time for, you play with them until they go to bed and then you start cranking the midnight oil. Finish Strong!!
Method #4 – Be Aware of the Negative, but Don’t Act of It:
I was just listening to a podcast (it might have been this one?) where the guest that was being interviewed said that we shouldn’t spend energy trying to avoid negative in our lives. We are designed to be problem solvers, so, therefore, our brains our naturally looking for things that they can fix. That’s just what we’re made of.
However, there are times when you need to ignore the negative that comes into your life – especially if it doesn’t come in the form of constructive criticism. There are some people out there that their way of building themselves up is by being critical of other people.
These are trolls. Don’t feed them. Don’t let them get to you. They call you “dumb” or “weird”, then they’re probably “weird” themselves. Don’t let the one bad review shadow over all your compliments!
Many people are not going to get ahead today simply because they don’t know how to ignore other’s thoughts. John Cleese explains in this video:
Also, don’t let yourself be your own worst enemy. If you find yourself coming up with more and more excuses on why you can’t do something (it’s not the right time, someone else has more luck than you, or you don’t have the right skill set), FIGURE IT OUT. Actually let that brain do its job of putting the pieces together! Heck, you might even find a way to collaborate with someone who needs your skillset.
Action Steps:
Now that you have a few tools that you can use to get more skillful at your work, pick a few to start implementing as soon as possible. Which is one that you can start today? How about in 15 days? Perhaps a month?
For those of you who do use some of the discipline techniques above, what are some of your results of using them? Do you have any suggestions that I missed?
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As we have found out, passion filled work comes in many forms. Just last week, we saw how David Picciuto helps others learn about woodworking online. He gets to utilize his past interests in art and design to aid in getting his new found passion of woodworking out into the world.
For me, I’ve recently come to realize that I love teaching, connecting people and ideas, tech, and entrepreneurship. These are topics that I’m constantly learning more about when I can. They are what I naturally gravitate towards.
Likewise, this session’s guest, AJ Clingerman, always knew that she wanted to have her own studio. While originally it was a dance studio, she was open to the idea of starting the Indiana Brazilian Jiu Jitsu Academy with her husband when she realized how deep his love of the martial art was.
In my opinion, they have a heck of a story and team going on. Able to capitalize on what they both do well. She does business, he focuses on training and training others.
In this session, we’ll get to know half of this partnership. Particularly we discuss with AJ what James told her about BJJ when they first started dating, where the idea of the academy came from, growing pains that she and James have held to deal with while growing the business, what experience she’s obtained from working with people like Scott Manning and Dan Kennedy, and where the idea for her two books came from.
If you’re interested in starting a athletic training academy, or simply want to expand online what you’re already doing, then I think you’ll get a ton out of this talk.
SPECIFICALLY, YOU’LL FIND OUT MORE ABOUT:
How AJ got into Brazilian Jiu Jitsu in the first place.
How long AJ has envisioned herself running a business.
Why she chose not to pursue a college degree.
Where the idea for INDY EGO (Extreme Grappling Open) came from.
Where the idea for the Indiana Brazilian Jiu Jitsu Academy came from.
What kind of growing pains they had to go through when starting a business knowing little about actually running a business.
Where the idea for Indy Business Success came from and how this initiative is helping business owners around Indianapolis.
How she won Dan Kennedy’s Marketer of the Year award.
One thing you should definitely consider when starting a business based YouTube Channel.
What gave AJ the idea to write her books.
What she thinks about women in men’s fields – especially in martial arts.
Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Leave a note in the comment section below!
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There are multiple ways to make money online. Most people know of information entrepreneurs. These are your Thought Leaders, your Teachers, and your Mediapreneurs. Others might think of software makers – called engineers. Or even more, you might think of someone who has a store and sells other’s items – these are Retailers. These are all part of the 10 Archetypes.
One type that I didn’t know too much about was The Maker. How does someone that makes a living producing crafts get online besides selling their physical goods online?
That’s where today’s guest, David Picciuto, has been able to make the connection. He makes YouTube videos showing how to make stuff!
Rather fascinating guy that I’m glad I got to know more about him and his craft.
In this chat, we go into how he got into woodworking as an online business, explore his successful YouTube channel and podcast, and why he believes it’s necessary to diversify your brand online.
If you love working with your hands and have been wondering what might be a good idea for an online business, this talk is just for you. (If you’re like me and have other ideas, you’ll get plenty out of this talk too. David is actually a lot like many of us when he first began!!)
SPECIFICALLY, YOU’LL FIND OUT MORE ABOUT:
How David stumbled into woodworking as a business.
Where his creative flair came from.
One way to get through the imposter’s syndrome.
When he realized he had to “grow up” and get something other than a job at Target.
How he knew it was time to strike it out on his own from a great job as a developer/designer.
How he makes an income doing YouTube videos.
Why he changed the name of his business from Drunken Woodworker to MakeSomething.TV.
What lead David to write his Bandsaw Box book.
What David does with all the products he makes on his show.
Why it’s important to diversify your brand online.
How and why he has such nice looking videos.
How the podcast ended up coming together.
What he is or is not looking forward to in the future!
Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Leave a note in the comment section below!
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